House Hunting as New Parents: What No One Tells You (But Should!)

As a photographer, first-time homeowner, and first-time home shopper with a newborn six years ago, I know how overwhelming it can be to navigate major life changes—especially when they happen all at once! When I was looking for a house to call a home in 2018, I wish I had some guidance on how to start and where to begin. That experience taught me a lot about how important it is to have the right support, which is why I decided to get the best realtor in Pasadena to help other parents who may have the same questions I had back then.

That’s why I’m excited to share some expert advice from Joyce Ma, a fellow mom of twins, resident of Pasadena, and one of the most knowledgeable realtors in the Pasadena area. Joyce has graciously offered to share some insights from her experience to help new parents who are considering buying their first home. Whether you’re preparing to welcome a little one or already juggling parenthood, buying your first home is a big decision, and Joyce’s tips can make the process a little easier.

Joyce Ma, a Pasadena realtor, smiling and holding a red SOLD sign in front of a recently sold home with her real estate sign for WeTrust Realty.


Becoming a parent and buying your first home—each on its own is life-changing. But doing both at the same time? That’s next level adulting! It’s exciting, overwhelming, and let’s be real—exhausting.


Joyce highlights that you don’t have to figure it all out by yourself. A knowledgeable realtor can take a lot of the stress off your plate by helping you find a home that truly works for your growing family—not just right now, but years down the road.

Soft gray elephant plush toy placed in a white crib with neutral bedding and floral wall decor, photographed in a Pasadena newborn nursery. 

Think Beyond the Nursery—Your Family Will Grow Fast

Your family will grow before you know it. Joyce always advises parents to look for flexible layouts—like a home office or den that could become a future bedroom. Plus, storage is crucial! Baby gear takes over so quickly. And even if school feels like it’s way down the road, buying in a good district is smart because those homes tend to hold their value.

 

Convenience Over Size—Your Time is Precious

Sometimes a large house that’s an hour away might seem tempting, but as a parent, your time is worth more than extra square footage. It’s worth considering shorter commutes and being close to essentials—like grocery stores and pharmacies. Finding a parent-friendly neighborhood can make such a difference.

 

Soft gray elephant plush toy placed in a white crib with neutral bedding and floral wall decor, photographed in a Pasadena newborn nursery.

Prioritize Sleep-Friendly Layouts

Sleep is priceless when you’ve got a little one. Think about the baby’s room being a little away from the kitchen or living room so naps aren’t interrupted. Split-bedroom layouts can be a game changer too, especially if one parent works late or has a different schedule.

 

Low-Maintenance Living

Low-maintenance living becomes essential as new parents. A turnkey home that doesn’t need a ton of work is a lifesaver. And if the yard’s not manageable, it can quickly become a burden. Sometimes HOA perks can actually be helpful, like when they handle front yard maintenance.

 

White nursery bookshelf styled with plush toys, alphabet letters, and children's books, photographed during a newborn session in Pasadena.

Resale Value Matters

Even if you think this is your forever home, life changes fast. It’s wise to buy with flexibility in mind and consider whether the home will be easy to sell when the time comes. Versatile layouts and homes in family-friendly areas tend to hold their value better.

Professional headshot of Joyce Ma, Pasadena realtor, smiling in a light blazer at a window-lit desk.

Takeaways from Joyce’s Expertise

Buying a home while raising a baby is a big deal, but it’s definitely manageable with the right guidance. Joyce’s experience in helping families navigate this journey is invaluable, and I’m grateful she’s sharing her knowledge to help others in the community. I hope you find these tips helpful! As a mom and a photographer who works with new and growing families, I know how important it is to feel settled and comfortable in your home. Connecting with professionals who understand your needs can make the journey that much easier.